Now, these are 8 basic general Romantic Relationship Patterns (RRP’s) that women have. There can be many other variations of patterns that are unique to each woman, however these are the basic general ones. Do you see any of these basic patterns for yourself or for someone you know? You can learn more about your specific Romantic Relationship Pattern (RRP) by going to www.BeWithYourMan.com
A Romantic Relationship Pattern (RRP) is a pattern that occurs in romantic relationships that a woman experiences over and over and over and over again – leaving her frustrated, tired, exhausted, defeated, and worn out. Look below and see if you see your Romantic Relationship Pattern (RRP).
1.) The Cheating Man Pattern. The man always cheats on women. In this pattern a woman finds that she continues to attract men that always seem to end up cheating on her. These woman will come to the conclusion that “all men are just dogs and they will all cheat sooner or later”. These women give up on the idea of actually meeting a man, falling in love and living a happy life together. These women view men as something they use to fulfill their needs from time to time, but since all men are dogs anyways, no man is worth their time and effort.
2.) The Married Man Pattern. This man is married to another woman. In this pattern, the woman attracts men who always seem to end up being married. These women come to the conclusion that “If I wait long enough, he will eventually leave his wife and be with me. After all, he told me that he loves me and he is waiting for the right time to leave his wife for me.” These women take second place to the man’s wife, but in their own mind they convince themselves that they are in first place, in large part because the man keeps telling them they are. These women view men as a rare and precious commodity and they better be happy that they got any man at all.
3.) The Emotionally Unavailable Man Pattern. The man is emotionally unavailable to women. In this pattern, a woman tends to attract men who will not share what they feel or think with the woman. These women come to the conclusion that “men do not have the capacity to feel or share their feelings.” These women will attempt to force men to share their feelings and express what they are feeling and they will share stories with their friends and family about how emotionally unavailable he is. These women view men as a nut to be cracked, and that if they hang in there long enough and prod, poke, complain and nag him enough, that one day he just may open up like a little flower.
4.) The Broke Man Pattern. The man is always broke and never seems to have enough money to take their woman out to dinner or a movie. In this pattern, a woman attracts men who are constantly broke and struggling financially in their lives. These women come to the conclusion that “money is not an important factor in relationships and I’m not superficial so I will love my man no matter what.” These women end up paying for just about everything in the relationship. They pay for dinner, they pay for the movies, they pay for the parking, and in some cases they even pay all his bills. These women view men as someone they can save and rescue and that eventually “one day” he will get his life together and do his part and will even take care of her – hopefully.
5.) The Disappearing Man Pattern. The man always disappears or dumps and leaves women. In this pattern a woman attracts men who end up leaving them at the end of the relationship. These women come to the conclusion that “there must be something wrong with me, and if I can just figure it out and fix it, then they won’t leave me anymore.” These women are constantly worried about how they look and what men think of them. They are willing to change themselves into anything that current man they are with at the time wants them to be. And they are willing to do just about anything to make this man happy and they do everything in their power to make him happy so he will stay with them. These woman view men as unattainable. That no matter what they do or say, somehow it’s just never going to be enough, and no man will ever really love them in the end.
6.) The Dominating Man Pattern. This man is dominating and controls women. In this pattern, a woman attracts men who are dominating, controlling with physical and/or emotional abuse. These women come to the conclusion that “men are aggressive, angry, brutal, and stronger then me on all levels, so I will just give them what they want and be quite.” These women end up enduring physical or emotional abuse and the cost can be devastating and life threatening. These women view men as more powerful and someone to be feared.
7.) The Wimpy Man Pattern. This man is wimpy and is the exact opposite of controlling and can tend to give the woman everything they want. In this pattern, women attract men who are soft, quiet, needy and submissive. These women come to the conclusion that “men are week, pathetic, and spineless.” These women run the relationship and tell the man what to do, how to feel, and what to think every step of the way. These women view men as inferior and in need of guidance like little children.
8.) The Falling-Apart Man Pattern. This man’s life is always falling to pieces. In this pattern, the woman attracts men whose lives are falling apart in every area. These women come to the conclusion that “there is something wrong with him, he can’t seem to get his life together. He really needs me to help him put his life back into order. He better be grateful I’m with him because I’m the best thing he’s got going.” These women view men as broken and as a project that needs to be fixed and repaired.